This morning we headed one hour outside of Changsha in Hunan Province to Xiangyin where Kyra's Social Welfare Institution or orphanage is located. I had sent pictures of Kyra's nannies and the staff to our tour operator to see if anyone was still around from when Kyra was there. We were told there was no one. Kyra was fine with it, but I was disappointed. We had a few huge surprises when we arrived.
We were told this woman was Kyra's ayi (nanny).
My mouth dropped and for a moment, I didn't believe. I thought maybe they just had some woman come in, because I was so desperate to find someone. But then they showed me the picture I had sent them of Kyra's ayi, and sure enough, this was her. She was retired and had come back to see YaXin (Kyra). I was so stunned that I didn't get a picture of their hug. I could tell Kyra felt awkward, but this sweet woman who took care of Kyra for the first year of her life was tearing up, she was so happy to see Kyra.
We gave the staff a photo album of Kyra growing up. Her ayi was especially happy to see that she had a happy life. She gave us her WeChat information (social media available in China) and asked us to keep in touch so she could watch her grow up. She also asked Kyra if she would come back when she was all grown up.
The SWI has only 7 children now -- all disabled. One was in the hospital and one was at school so we went up to see the other five who were all mentally disabled. They were so happy to see us, all smiles. We took them snacks and small toys. It was hard to see them there. They looked happy and well-cared for though.
The building is run down, even though it is only 13 years old. But we were told renovation will start and older people will start living there. It is good news that they have fewer abandoned children and are providing homes for the elderly.
We were standing outside waiting for lunch when a man came walking up the driveway. His face looked like the man who was the director when Kyra was a baby. It WAS him!!! Craig had recognized him, too. He had come back just to see Kyra!
The SWI invited us to lunch with the staff, which made us feel awkward. We had made a donation to them, but it felt like we should be taking them to lunch. As we were sitting at lunch, the one woman started to look very familiar to me. Two of the ladies had not been introduced to us. It turned out that the woman I recognized was working there when Kyra was there. And so were the other two women. Two of them still work there, but one had come back to see Kyra. They were interested in how she was doing and asked her to come back with her family in the future.
It made my heart feel so good to see how much everyone still cared. I hope Kyra can now see for herself how much she was loved there the first year of her life.